10 Things That Can Ruin A Sweet Relationship Or Marriage

10 Things That Can Ruin A Sweet Relationship Or Marriage


Have you ever asked yourself, why does it seem like
Today, you feel you are doing perfectly well in your relationship , tomorrow, everything seems to be falling apart?
The truth is, the day you say ‘yes’ to anyone , that very day you
give your consent to be in a relationship, your work to keep it
going begins.
Relationships don’t work out itself, two persons with a mutual
feeling makes a relationship work.
In as much as we all wish for a happy relationship , there are
still little things that can destroy a loving relationship even without our knowledge . Today, I want share these things with you.

1. PRIDE
They say “pride comes before a downfall.” Now quote me,
nobody is too big, too successful, too beautiful, too handsome
to be in a relationship.
“ Don’t ever think you are doing anyone a favour by being
associated with him/her. You got to be humble while in a
relationship or failed relationships will humble you.
Learn to say things like “am sorry “, “thank you “, “I won’t do
it again”, “ I promise to make it up to you “. Pride can destroy a sweet loving relationship therefore, please throw it to the
dogs.

2. POOR COMMUNICATION
I will always say “communication is a vital key to a healthy relationship”. How can your partner know how feel, what you want, or how you want it if you don’t communicate.
Any relationship that lacks communication is dead even before it started. Poor communication has the potential to destroy a
relationship no matter how good you both look together.

3. EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL CHEATING
E & P cheating can destroy trust, zeal, ability, willingness to
love no matter how hard you try. When you are emotionally and
Physically down, how can you love?
Cheating is a relationship killer, a relationship / marriage without
trust, zeal, willingness to make it work is inert.

4. LACK OF ATTENTION
lack of attention can be as a result of lack of affection, love, passion, attraction etc. Love is a natural thing, when your heart falls in love, you find yourself desiring to be around the person, you just wanna spend time with your love, you want to talk and take care of the person.
Lack of attention can lead to lack of care, communication,
intimacy etc and these affects the relationship negatively.

5. MISPLACED PRIORITY
ALL hail our career men / women. As much as I love
hardworking men / women, you must learn to balance your
priorities. You should know when to close from work, come home
and take care of your hubby & children.
Men, you should know when to spend time with your family and
when to be at work. You should know when to call that man/
woman you claim to love. Know this “Nobody is too busy to
show love” BALANCE YOUR PRIORITIES.

6. UNFORGIVENESS

7. GOSSIPS

8. LIEING TONGUE

9. NAGGING

10. COMPARING YOUR PARTNER WITH YOUR EX. ETC.

I choose to stop here. No relationship is perfect but don’t
destroy yours with your hands.
Wish you all happiness in our relationships and I hope we all
learnt from this.
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